Love Is Not A Game - Books & Articles

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Want better love? Want more exciting sex? What do you think is most likely to give you better love and more exciting sex? The Answer :
		Romantic Chemistry
		Emotional Maturity
		Sexual Fantasies
		All of the Above is Randy's Answer

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Love Is Not A Game - In this book, Relationship Coach Randy Hurlburt gives you straight answers about romance, maturity, sex, and more. Find out why he says "All of the Above." You will also learn:

The four key things to look for in a love relationship
How much time to invest in any relationship
What to do for sex and emotional fulfillment while not in a relationship
How to get more excitement out of sex within a relationship
Strategies to use to beat the odds and find good love (and good sex).

Contains both of Dr. Bessell’s Love Tests. Learn his secrets and you too can have exciting and successful relationships.

"Hurlburt knows what it takes to make a relationship work.
No one should get married before reading this book!"
Dean Mignola, author of "The Single Guy's Survival Guide."

This is the best investment you'll ever make in your love life.

You can order books from Amazon.com, or from
Randy, for only $11.53 plus shipping.


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Free “Love Tests”: The Romantic Attraction Questionnaire and the Emotional Maturity Questionnaire developed by world famous psychologist Harold Bessell, Ph.D. are contained in the book and will teach you to be a better lover. Get an electronic download version free when you buy the book from Randy.

Free Love Dice: Randy's unique "Love Dice" illustrate various dating situations in a fun and memorable way. A free set will be sent with the book when you order from Randy.

Controversial and compelling, Love Is Not A Game (But You Should Know the Odds) contains torrid true stories of real relationships. Don't miss the chapters on "Kissing Frogs," "Sex is Like Water," or the appendix on "Sexual Fantasies"!
Paperback edition, size 5¼ x 8, 357 pages, illustrated

I think your wonderful book is the best book on relationships
that I have read in the last two years!
Nicole Angel, Phoenix , Arizona

"Stimulating, educating, entertaining, and titillating."
Preston Nash, KGEO Talk Radio.

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Love Dice: Four dice are used throughout the book to illustrate various types of love relationships in a fun and memorable way. A free set comes with the book when you buy it from Randy or via a mail-in coupon when you buy from Amazon. These dice make great conversation starters at parties. Roll them and discuss the likely future of the relationship picture that comes up. Buy extra sets and use them as gifts to show your friends about good love. Price $4.95.

The Love Test -
This earlier book by Love Is Not A Game's collaborating psychologist Harold Bessell. Ph.D. explains in more detail the Romantic Attraction Questionnaire and the Emotional Maturity Questionnaire. These are the same tests that form the basis for Love Is Not A Game. Learn Bessell's Ten Commandments for an emotionally mature relationship, and his sixty-three ways to build maturity. A great companion to Love Is Not A Game.
Paperback edition, size 4 x 6½, 243 pages, price $9.95.

Conscious Dating -
In this book by David Steele (with a foreword by Randy Hurlburt) you will learn how relationships fail, why "dating" doesn't work, why being single is an opportunity, not a disease, how to avoid the "14 Dating Traps," what you can do when single to prepare for the life and relationship you want, and how to use Conscious Dating principles and strategies to find the love of your life and the life that you love.
Paperback edition, size 5¼ x 8, 220 pages, price $17.95.

Romance with the Right Person -
Another book by Harold Bessell, Romance with the Right Person helps teenagers understand the dynamics of love relationships. Using the psychological questionnaires from The Love Test, this book translates them into the everyday experience of high school age adults. A good companion workbook to go with The Love Test.
Paperback edition, size 8½ x 11, 147 pages, price $9.95.

The Parent Book -
Also by Harold Bessell The Parent Book removes the mystery about what motivates your child to behave as he does. You can know in advance how to recognize and handle each issue of emotional development before it grows into a possibly serious problem. You can respond constructively to the thinly disguised messages which your child is giving you every day of his life.
Paperback edition, size 8 ½ x 11, 207 pages, price $9.95.

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